You make a number of errors. The first is that we care about what you think of our genitals. The second is that we somehow have some moral duty to inform you about the shape of our genitals. The third is that we have some duty to “do whatever you want.” “My main goal is to make you happy.” One has must be a sick person to either say it, or expect it a potential partner to say so. “She is the most important thing.” Entitled much? You aren’t “the most important thing.” You may or may not be important to him, but he is the most important person in his life. You either agree to walk your paths side-by-side, or you expect abject servility.
If I were generous, I could stretch and say that what you’re hoping for is open and honest communication. But that would be overly generous. You come across as a narcissistic child with a sense of entitlement. The attitude that you express is a great part of why men are abandoning relationships with women. Your entire video was Me! Me! Me! You give to me!
I will save your video as an example to young men as an example of the to the type of woman to avoid if he has interest a legitimate relationship.