Category Archives: Gynocentrism

Women’s Fear. We don’t care anymore.

Women’s fear. It’s been overused as a political tool. It is irrational in today’s Western context. The trigger is worn out. We don’t care anymore.

Women's fear. We don't care anymore.

On the “gender balanced” cabinet in Canada.

On the “gender balanced” cabinet in Canada.

The deed is done. This is an experiment that we’ve never tried. Let’s see how it works out. We will either learn that there is a serious discrepancy in the performance of the ministers, or not.

We should be very strongly on guard, however, to immediately slap down any criticism of quota cabinet ministers who might complain that they are being harassed “because of sexism or racism” or other such common excuses. Having accepted the position granted by the ideological lottery, they must now endure the same treatment that all non-quota ministers have received since day one, and that comes with the position.

I am strongly against quotas, I think that the means is ill-conceived, but we’ve now got what we’ve got, and we have to deal with current reality. We should ensure, however, that no future cabinets are selected on this basis. This is the Left’s one, multi-year shot at proving their point. If it turns out that selecting a cabinet based on sex, or race is a successful experiment, then it should be proof that “non-white men” are competent, and “non-white men” should step up on their own steam and power, and not expect future free handouts of power-positions.

We often hear that one reason women don’t step up is a lack of role models. We’ve now held the hand of a variety of people and plunked them on the purple cushion… and under Damocles’s sword. There you go, kids, there are your role models. It is time now, for them to make the case, to show, rather than tell. Should it happen, however, that some do crash and burn, you don’t get to blame sexism, or the system. You may not reach for the argument of “historical oppression.” You must hold the individual accountable.

To do otherwise is to put ideology before results, and to demonstrate a complete disconnect with the reality that we are a mass of living people dealing with the incremental and life-or-death mundanity of daily life.

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This is the real basis of Feminism

Woman High On Drugs Finds Out She is Fat.

Admittedly, there’s something that’s quite funny about the video. But at the same time, what this drug induced person, whose inhibitions and self-awareness are obviously shut right down, is showing us the uncensored contents of her psyche.

There is not a single woman that I know that doesn’t feel this way, or fear it, despite their great pains to hide it.

And this, my friends, is the true root of Feminism: the inner turmoil that comes from our primal urge to belong. There was once a time when what people struggled for were women’s freedoms as granted by rights. Those goals having been accomplished, today’s identity politics Radical Feminism is based on assuaging that which gives the urge to howl.

Men are rapists! Why? Because men find some women so sexy that they can’t help themselves, is the unspoken narrative. This is the inverse of the video, it is being so sexually attractive that belonging is beyond inevitable, to the point that others are crazed beyond self-restraint.

Women are oppressed by The Patriachy. Why? Because we care for victims. The greater the victim a woman is, the more she will be cared for, even if they have to alienate everyone to get it.

Feminism is nothing more than the wounded. I would suggest that we teach them that men in general have our equivalents and to the degree that they stop behaving abusively, and increase basic human courtesy and respect, they’re chances of getting what they want will improve.

Dear Feminist women. You’ve got every single right in law that men have, and some that we don’t. That’s covered. We instinctively love you, despite our better judgment at times. That’s covered. Your final step is to abandon your means-goal driven ideology and to focus on what you really want: the best life that you can have, including genuine, deep and rich relationships based on respect.

Failure to do so will only continue to drive more and more men away.

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An excellent case study on Feminist use of language to frame thoughts

Feminists are excellent at is controlling the mental framing of an argument. Notice that in every instance that Mike made a point, that she immediately changed the scope of the conversation. She does not announce “I am now changing the scope!” She does it entirely by presupposition, in a fluid manner. This is the tool that all skillful Feminists use, I would guess, 80% of the time. The benefits is that it seems conversationally “natural” and that to to stop the technique, one must get bogged down by refuting the presupposition, point by point, where as a response she need only apply the very same technique to the rebuttal. The only way to counter this that I’m aware of is to be able to simultaneously shift the frame again in such a way that her presuppositions are refuted, presuppositionally, and to grab the frame back and hold it.

This highlights, what I think is a difference in classical communication style between men and women. People who have “a masculine mindset” tend to all make the same error when dealing with such people: we reach for the explicit. But, like sex that does not need words, acceptance of ideas is often based on the non-verbal, and being explicit is actually counter-productive.

This particular debate about sexual consent on the BBC’s ‘The Big Questions’ provides a text-book example of both the arguments, techniques used. There are also two members, a man with short and white hair, and the woman sitting next to Mike Buchanan who simply nail it.

This video is worth keeping kept as a case-study.

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Another reason to go MGTOW – sperm theft

Women stealing sperm? C’mon, what woman would do this? Impossible! Unimaginable. This kind of thinking belongs to the paranoid and delusional.

Liz Jones on This Morning – Sperm Stealing

At 3:41 while discussing the theft of a man’s sperm to defraud him into parenthood, the host expresses her concern: “This is not very Gurl Power. It’s giving us a very bad name, and I worry about that.”

This is what toxic femininity looks like.

On the plus side, we have two women who actually bother viewing men as human.

The women say that the man has the right to not have a child.

Unfortunately, this is false. We do not have that right under law, should we lose control of his sperm. I do want to congratulate them for their sentiment that men should have that right though. This video is a rare moment of honesty on the matter in the media. Good on them for that, at least.

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Women Nowadays: a litany of horrors, GoodMenAmongUs a balm

There was once a YouTube channel called “ViolentWomenAmongUs” that had some 1500 to 2000 news clippings of women perpetrating horrible deeds. It was taken down. Another has taken its place. I don’t know if it is the same person.

The channel, like this one, is soul-sickening and rage inducing in its variety, persistence and sheer mass. Here is a more recent example.

Whereas the previous channels are an important resource to help re-balance the notion that women are precious, special, victimized princesses incapable of anything than goodness and light, it wasn’t enough.

I was so affected by the channel’s content that I had decided to create my own channel: GoodMenAmongUs *

https://www.youtube.com/user/GoodMenAmongUs

Where our society tells us that men are horrible, violent, abusive rapists, I felt the need to show the other side of that coin. The Good Men Amongst Us channel is designed as a soul-balm to those who feel that men are being treated as little more than the evil puppets of the patriarchy.

I only update it sporadically, as my mental state requires, or as I run into a fortunate example worthy of putting up on the channel. It isn’t enough to be negative, one must be positive.

I invite you to subscribe, to pass it along to those who you think might benefit from it, and to send video recommendations of the like via a private message on the channel.

* I am embarrassed to say that the channel should have been properly named goodmenamongsTus :)

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RE: Dear Men, please watch

tld;dr. I should have made a video response. You’ve made a lot of points in 8 minutes. I’ve written about 3 minutes worth of text. Read on, brave solider. Long, but concise. I’ve read the article. It is a popularization of something with enormously more depth that it addressed. I think that most of what you say is young, woman, one-side, self-centered. Don’t let that stop you, I’m respectful, because I expect that any response will be equally respectful.

1. “Feminism at its core means ‘Equal Rights for Men and Women.” It doesn’t. Feminism doesn’t mean anything, it is an ideology whose core, root, base assertion is that women are victims of men’s oppression. This is why ‘Equal rights’ is considered an important goal to achieve. Can you name one right in law that men in the Western world have that women do not? Can you name one word spoken, or deed performed on the behalf of women’s rights or interests that cannot be done in the absence of Feminism? No? Done. You can put Feminism away for good now. Tell your friends.

2. Men do not blame the political ideology of Feminism for their being single. You’ve got it backwards. Men choose to remain single to protect ourselves against legal and cultural conditions brought about by Feminists that actively harm men.

3. That you refer to the equivalent of choosing to avoid bullets as “hibernating” demonstrates that your thinking is one-sided, wrong and unfair–and honestly? Ignorant of men’s lives.

4. The points that you make have nothing to do with Feminism, and everything to do with pure, one-sided gynocentrism.

a) You can cry about being hit on a million times a day, as we might door-to-door sales people ringing our doorbell. What you’re failing to understand, young woman, is that this is a privilege that women have and you are taking it for granted. You are inundated with goods. You will not have this issue once you are in your forties, and you will look back on these times with whist and nostalgia. “Oh, when I was young and hot…” Know how to avoid this? Build character and interpersonal skills, and respect for men.

b) You blame “creeps” for women giving men the cold shoulder. “Creep” means “repulsive person.” This is nothing more that your projecting your personal preferences onto other people. That you say “We don’t know who to trust.” is a fair statement. Men are simply doing what you are doing. We don’t know which women to trust, and so we are giving you the cold shoulder, because many women are creeps. You are complaining that men bitch at Feminists, yet you are bitching at “creeps.” You are guilty of the very same act that you are complaining about.

c) Men do not call women “bitches” because they are “independent.” This epithet is usually assigned to those who are rude, unkind, users and/or exemplify a myriad of characteristics that can only be attributed to poor character. Of course, there are those men who are immature or who have poor character that are just as rude, and call names. Distinguish between the two, so that you can know when you are being a bitch, and when you are dealing with one. And sometimes, it’s not exclusive. Welcome to the real world.

d) You are conflating women and Feminism. Women are humans, Feminism is an ideology. Feminists are people who adhere to the ideology. As a self-proclaimed Feminist, why don’t you make this distinction?

e) “Men are blaming women and Feminism for isolating themselves, that is complete bullshit” We’re avoiding creeps and complain about women’s behaviour toward us, and the effects that the institutionalized ideology of Feminism has upon our lives. You complain about “creeps” and “give them the cold shoulder.” That’s what we’re doing. The two are identical. Are your reasons “complete bullshit?”

f) “If women are going out and having more adventures, doesn’t that motivate you to do the same?” First, men aren’t pack animals, we don’t naturally follow a herd. We don’t do what others do just because others are doing it. Second, for many men, our sense of adventure–that which gives us excitement, joy, wonder, life, are sexual relationships. Oh, but that’s bad, right? Men and women are different that way.

g) You then follow up with “I know you might feel discouraged sometimes, You definately should not approach women on the street because 99.99% of the time that will not be effective.” PUAs will tell you differently. And this is why men don’t listen to women for advice on how to pick up women. Women’s advice on “what works” is usually very wrong. They are passengers on a bus telling the driver what makes a good ride for the passengers, not how to get there, Most have never driven a bus. The correct person to ask how to drive the bus is an experienced bus driver, not the passenger.

g.1) “Women don’t know if you’re the good guy or the bad guy.” And we don’t know if you’re the cool chick, or the bitch. The difference is that you have the privilege of being the desired, and men will rarely be pursued by a woman that is not a creep. We pays our dime, we takes our chances. That’s how the world turns. That you don’t like it doesn’t mean we’re wrong to be who we are or what our approach is. Not all of us can afford to pay for your adventure, which you will expect.

h) “Going into hibernation mode” again. You don’t get it. We aren’t in “hibernation mode” we are in “avoid the creeps” and “avoid the creep-created laws that can ruin our life mode.”

i) “We should not blame Feminism, we should blame the guys that wrecked it for the other guys.” And this is why men complain about women, Feminism and avoid getting into relationships with you, women, Feminists and especially Feminist women. Take a little responsibility for yourself, would you? Please? Eschew the gynocentric point of view. In simple words: quit being self-centred and one-sided. Grow up.

5. “I can only tell you the opinion of women out there.” No, you can’t. You can tell us your opinion, and it is arrogant for you to believe that you speak for all women, or even all Feminist women.

6. I did like the video. I disagreed with you completely, but you weren’t a bitch. :)

[LATER] I notice that your video description has expanded to at least half the length of my comment. I understand that you freak out at push-back. Welcome to the real world. Be decent, honest and kind with me, and I offer the same. I believe that I have. I welcome your thoughtful response.

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Gynocentrism. This is what it looks like, too.

 Gynocentrism. This is what it looks like.

Gynocentrism. This is what it looks like.

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Gynocentrism. This is what it looks like.


Gynocentrism. This is what it looks like.

Gynocentrism. This is what it looks like.

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WGTOW: Women Got To Own (the) World

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http://www.womengoingtheirownway.com/

For those of you familiar with MGTOW or “Men Going Their Own Way,” this idea will not be new to you.

This website essentially exists for three reasons:

1. To create a stronger language bond between females. This site is made by women for women! Nothing typed will be said in acknowledgement of male readers; the equal and opposite of MGTOW spaces.

2. As a way that I can reach out to find possibly interested women that want to start a discussion that looks for positive ideas

3. To perhaps help current feminists consider a different point of view, one that has more life in the long run.

http://www.womengoingtheirownway.com/about-us.html

I’m sure that the women who did this think of themselves as fair, and honest and good willed. They appear to be anti-Feminist and don’t want to trample on men.

I can only ask myself “What the fuck are you thinking? What is wrong with you?”

This website and its intent is an abomination to me.

It is a me-too, mindless bandwagon jump from women who have no good sense, zero originality and the immature drive to belong to something for no reason other than it is gaining popularity.

This is a pattern that we see from women, often: “Oh! Look! Something popular! There’s fun and entertainment being had without me! I want my fun! I want to be part of it! For men only? Doesn’t matter! Let us into the locker-room! We want in! Gimme gimme gimme!”

You are the selfish and clingy girlfriend who insists on showing up at her boyfriend’s night out with the boys. It’s not even that you want to be there, it’s that you want to feel self-important and believe that you have the power to make yourself accepted, even when you aren’t.

We aren’t going to politely tolerate you. Get the fuck out.

Sincerely: Fuck off! Go away. You are unwanted and unwelcome. You are intruding. You are out of place. You are an uncomfortable and unwanted weight. We don’t want you around.

We see what you’re doing, even if you haven’t got the self-awareness to notice: you are doing that whole cultural appropriation thing that women do: smile, infest, invade and absorb. It is the plausible deniability of the dull-witted copy-cat. “I’m not going your way! I’m just walking mine! It just so happens that my way is wherever you are! Nyah!” You’re hoping that we’ll be polite with you just long enough to get use to it and give up. No.

Go away. Seriously.

You are trying to crash our party, the guests are walking away from you, and you are obnoxiously trying to inject yourself into a group that is telling you that your presence is a displeasure.

Men Going Their Own Way is a movement based on getting away from the potential danger that women bring. Lets be clear: We like you as people, we appreciate you as a person, and you are potentially dangerous. Now get the fuck out of our space.

I am trying every trick that I know of to express the utter contempt and rejection of you for your mindless daddy-abandonment issues driven choice. If we were on the Serengeti plains, I would tie you up and run across the to the other side of the predator’s territory. I would cross canyons and chasms to get away from you. If you followed me, I’d push you off a cliff. I want you to feel a deep and paralyzing, embarrassed shame that causes you to slink away and crawl under a rock in foetal realization that you’ve fucked up, while we take the opportunity to distance ourselves from you as quickly as we can.

Do you understand, “Women Going Their Own Way?” Take no, for an answer. Go away. You are unwanted and unwelcome. We reject you. Fuck off. Leave. Beat it. Scram. Go find an alligator to play with. Feed yourself to a hyena. Be an adult. Not only do we want you to mind your own business, but we want you to leave us to mind our own–that is the whole point of it, after all.

Want to be part of something? Think it up and build it yourselves you unoriginal, imaginationless, second-rate, me-too, copy-catting, bureaucratic, tag-along mother fuckers. Stealing big-people’s clothes and sneaking into a business meeting does not make you part of the company. Men aren’t your babysitting service, we’re not your boyfriends, we aren’t here to entertain you with new ideas. Doesn’t matter how much of a show you make of “not being like the women that men reject,” we reject you.

And think up your own name, while you’re at it.

I know you don’t feel like it, but you are poison. An infestation. Toxic to men who are simply trying to do their own thing. You are the one that little children point to and say “Look! A bad lady!” You are as bad as Feminists. For fuck’s sake. You call yourself “Women Going Their Own Way” while following ours.

I sincerely do not have the words to make my message so stabbingly personal that it will cause you to experience the emotional shock of realization that “I don’t belong here” to the degree that you permanently back off.

WGTOW: go away. Be men’s rights activists, be anti-feminists, create an equality movement for men and women on your own. Be separatists, isolationists, even. But please, stop trying to appropriate this exclusive men’s space, the space that we’ve created to get away from you.

This is what I want from you. Remove every page from your website save the index page. Have it read the following: “Real women respect men. We reject WGTOW.” I am requesting that you to do this today. I know, you’ve paid for the domain, and maybe the hosting. Do it anyway.

Create a new group. Women for women. Isolate yourselves from men. Find an island and go live on it. That’s fine. Be more than a me-too monkey. Dissociate in every possible way with Men Going Their Own Way, MGTOW.

I hope to have utterly discouraged you and have broken your heart from this project. Every word is sincere. Go away. That, or get ready to be pushed off the interpersonal cliff.

Addendum: That you think that MGTOW are doing this for fun shows how clueless you are. Your site is gyno-porn. You are masturbating womanhood in the hopes that other women will masturbate back at you. It is gynocentric back-patting, a circle-rub of “Ain’t we gals great?! Yes we are! Why? Because vagina!

Have you bothered asking why men are going their own way? Because that way is anywhere other than where you are, you vapid monkey-children. Why are we getting away from you? Because your self-centred, gynocentrism makes you do selfish and stupid things that fuck us up and cause us pain. We aren’t MGTOW for fun, we are doing it to avoid the pain that you and your kind are and bring because of your very mindless me-too Girls Just Wanna Have Fun attitude.

Don’t be a Woman Going Her Own Way. Just GO away.

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